3nder threesomes app: the tinder for couples

Dating application for couples and singles open minded. Discover a space where you can explore your desires and meet people of the same spirit. Register alone or in a relationship with a partner, a lover or a curious friend.

Never compliant, except with respect to privacy. On 3nder, you can be invisible to your Facebook friends and you are sure to interact only with real people.

Stay private. To be invisible to his friends. Neither a sport nor an end of the game. For us, nothing is more unpredictable and less binary than human desire. That’s why we designed 3nder: a meeting place for curious and open-minded people of all genders and all sexual identities. 3nder aims to create an inclusive space where everyone can be honest with themselves while acting responsibly towards others.

Dating for humans. 3nder is a space where you can explore your desires and find people who match you. Meet couples and singles curious and naughty to satisfy your real fantasies.

Gay. Lesbian. Hetero. Human.

• Designed for humans, no matter how they define themselves. Come as you Are.


• Be open, not open. Explore your fantasies in a safe and private space.

Find and meet couples for threesomes

• Whether you’re looking for a shot of a night, an adventure or a relationship, find what you want.

Daring app for threesomes

• It’s up to you. We offer the opportunity to associate profiles with a partner, spouse or curious acquaintance and browse 3nder as a couple.


• Meet alone or invite your partner to browse 3nder as a couple
• Meet curious and open-minded humans for an adventure, trio or relationship, among others.

Meet and discuss

• Come Together – Chat with singles, couples or create group discussions.
• Desire comes with time – no need to love or pass a person to browse all profiles.
• There is always a person who loves you – Connections Futures * lets you see all the people who have loved you. You decide to go further or not.
• Private Profile – Hide your Discover profile and interact only with existing connections.


• No real name needed – Use your imagination.
• Security and Privacy – Make your account invisible to your Facebook friends *.
• Send permanent or time-limited photos to discussions.
• Curious, open-minded, verified. All humans on 3nder are checked with Facebook.

Download 3nder now to discover and explore your fantasies. Discuss and meet real people in a place without judgment. Open to all genres and all sexual identities. 3nder is a welcoming space where each person can be honest with themselves while being responsible to others.