The day I had a threesome with my husband.


I have been in a relationship for 7 ½ years with my darling. We are respectively 27 and 32 years old and we are rather the perfect love.

Sexuality also it rolls well, downright well even. Our relationship started very quickly sexually, namely that we slept together at our first meeting, and that although this report was rather fast and messy, I knew right away that In bed, it was going to do it.

In everyday life, we do not talk a lot about our sexuality and a lot of things go by themselves, but we do not hesitate to speak when the need arises. In short, a fulfilling and happy sexuality.

After our wedding in 2016, we had the project to make a child. This detail is important because it is the moment when I stopped the pill, I who took it without thinking for ten years.

Stop the pill and rediscover your body

I then rediscovered my body. My libido was upside down. I, who thought I had no problem of desire, understood how much these hormones ingested daily for years impacted my behavior, my mood, my body.

I still wanted to make love and my mood was good. Physically, my chest was undergoing real changes during my cycle, and I wetted much more during my intercourse. All this boosted our sexuality that was already doing very well!

At the time, we exchanged many naughty images found on the net: suggestive images or downright porn, naughty drawings, etc. Often these images featured two women and one man.

I had never had sex with another woman. I had already kissed friends, a little drunk, in the evening, but nothing sexual, just provoc. However, women’s bodies attract me a lot, and if I do not project myself into a relationship with a woman, I can totally project myself into a sexual relationship!

For my darling, seeing her partner in a lesbian relationship was a fantasy (quite classic straight guys by the way), never realized but often evoked to mess with friends.

I confess I do not remember when and how we approached the subject concretely but one day when we discussed these images, I told my darling something like: “you know, it would excite me to do it with a girl in front of you … we could really do it. “The discussion, rather teasing at first, then became more and more serious.

Find a partner to have a threesome

Very quickly, in the days that followed, we decided to register on dating apps to see what it was. I created a female Tinder profile, with a picture of me first, then pictures of us, and a very clear description that we were in a couple and were looking for a girl our age to a threesome.

My darling did the same on the contrary, but he quickly gave up because he had no return … The competition as a man is tough on this app and this criterion in addition did not facilitate the thing.

Me on the other hand, I was talking with a lot of girls. It went very far with some, exchanges were sometimes downright pigs, but nothing concrete. Either the girls were only lesbians and were just trying to heat me up, or they were going off when things got serious. In the lot, we crossed a lot of profiles like ours, couples looking for a girl to do a threesome.

In any case, these exchanges excite us even more and my darling decided to move up a gear by proposing that we register on a site libertine. We did not want to get there at first because we had big aprioris on this type of site. But, finding no potential partner elsewhere (we also tried threesome targeted apps, in vain), we jumped.

So we registered on Wyylde and discovered a very different way of working. Our profile was a bit of a task: we had chosen to put our faces, no nude photos, while all the profiles were very explicit (photos of naked bodies, even sexes, never faces). The average age was also clearly higher … If on Tinder we discussed with girls clearly too young for us (18 years sometimes!), On Wyylde, we were the “fresh flesh”!

I wanted this experience as much as my husband

A little uncomfortable, we ended up talking to some girls, mostly thirty years old. The exchanges went far enough for two or three of them. Then, it became “serious” with one.

We went on a Whatsapp discussion to have the freedom to really talk to three. We first introduced ourselves, discussing things and others (job, interests, etc …), then the messages became very naughty.

This girl, let’s call her Lucie, had already had an experience with a couple, older than her. She had liked the experience but had felt that the woman was forced a little to please her spouse. For us, this was absolutely not the case. I wanted this experience as much as my darling. I was excited by her excitement at seeing me with a girl, excited about discovering girls’ sexuality and excited to share that with him.

In the wire Whatsapp, according to our availability, we exchanged sometimes three, sometimes two. We tried to be the most considerate possible darling and me. We did not want a relationship between a couple and a third person but a relationship to three.

Everyone expressed their desires, more or less explicitly. Again, we exchanged naughty images, which nourished our excitement and allowed to communicate clearly our desires and our limits. We were all three very hot in these discussions.

Great sexual arousal, gentleness and kindness

One night, we made love to each other by exchanging messages with Lucie, it was very exciting. In the heat of the moment, my darling recorded me moaning and sent it into the discussion!

We have not changed much directly and positively, my darling and me, on our expectations, our limits. This happened naturally in the three-way thread. It was clear to us three that if we took action, the communication would be paramount and that if something was wrong with one of us, it would suffice to say it without fear. There was, in addition to great sexual excitement, a lot of sweetness and kindness in our exchanges with Lucie, which I greatly appreciated.

Finally, it was my darling and I who proposed a meeting. Lucie lived an hour away from home (we live in a big provincial city). She did not want to see us at home, nor did we want to receive her at home, lest she feel uncomfortable if we were the only ones on familiar ground. So we proposed to meet at a bar in the city center to our home, near a small apartment rented on Airbnb for the night, in case we want to go further.

An appointment set in a bar

Once this appointment was fixed, the tension was high in our messages, we were all very excited. Personally, I thought only about that. We made love every day with my darling, we were hot.

In the evening, on a Friday, Lucie was to join us after work. She was off the road so we arrived early at the bar. We were very intimidated. Feel like beginners at a first date. And then, we had the impression that everyone was watching us and knew what we were doing, which is completely absurd!

We had exchanged photos of us so we knew what Lucie was like. When she finally arrived, we kissed each other and she sat between my darling and me, we had kept this place on high bar stools. We had a drink and started a timid discussion: “Did you park easily?”, Etc …

Little by little, the languages ​​have untied. We talked about his previous experience, the site and some strange profiles that can be found there. I do not remember how long we sat at the bar. I kept this impression all along that everyone knew what we were doing. But we were not embarrassed, it was very natural on the contrary. Our exchanges by messages before this meeting had broken a lot of barriers I think.

An electric atmosphere

After a while, on an empty stomach and with one or two glasses, the atmosphere was more electric. Lucie put her hand on my leg and began to stroke my thigh. When my darling noticed that, he could not take it anymore, he was very excited. I gave Lucie a few hugs while chatting and then we decided to go to the apartment. It was right across the street, but Lucie had left a piece of luggage in her car, so we took her to the parking lot.

We walked in the cold, drunk and excited, all three of us watching. At the car park, we took a lift, his car being on a high floor. There, we devoured each other’s eyes. Lucie and I exchanged a languid kiss, under the eyes of my darling who was struggling to hide the bump in his pants …

Even euphoria on the way back to the apartment. The impossibility of doing anything in public in the street galvanized us, but once we arrived at the apartment, we became more shy. We went around the owner then we all settled on the sofa and serious things started.

First kisses between her and me, then my darling joined us and everything was chained. It was going very naturally again: I remember making freeze-ups in the first moments by saying “Wow, we really do it and everything seems so normal!”

The discovery of the body of another woman

The discovery of a woman’s body in this context was a revelation to me. I really appreciated the sensuality of our caresses, the softness of its curves, being able to play with its very sensitive breast … On several occasions, my darling was a spectator of our caresses. These moments were particularly exciting: I discovered crazy pleasures, under his eyes, and he rediscovered me too.

And then, at one point, after having also participated in our caresses, my darling penetrated Lucie. At first, I dreaded that moment and told him so. I was afraid to realize what we were doing or that this vision is hurting me. He was looking for my approval of the look and he understood that he could go without fear. And indeed, everything was always very natural. I loved it. I can usually be a little jealous if a woman charms my darling, I felt a great excitement in this context.

We had fantasized all three of these moments, chatting in messages that I knew what to expect in reality. It was so good to see them both enjoying themselves, trying to give me too.

Practical side, we had not discussed upstream protection, but we had taken condoms and Lucie too. What actually happened was that my darling put one when he penetrated Lucie and removed it if he penetrated me then.

On the other hand, Lucie and I did not protect ourselves in our exchanges. I vaguely know the dikes to protect themselves during cunnilingus, but I’ve never used it … Surely we took risks therefore, in terms of sexually transmitted infections.

Especially since Lucie has also practiced unprotected blowjobs to my darling … In our defense, it was our first experience and if information on prevention methods are already unclear for reports hetero-normed, imagine for a threesome with bisexual women!

During the night, I enjoyed several times

The night has therefore taken its course. We cuddled hugs, positions, three or two … Then we took a break to get food delivered. We tried to sleep a little, three in bed that we had chosen big. Usually, we do not like to sleep against each other my darling and me, but here I am very snuggled against Lucie. Which also led us to wake up in the middle of the night for caresses, also waking my darling!

During this night, I enjoyed several times, and I lived my strongest orgasm. My darling was brave enough, even if, mechanically, he had to rest regularly! Moreover, we spoke about it again and he told me that he had the impression of not being up to the job, that Lucie and I were never stopped while he was forced to stop sometimes.

Yet, and I told him, I find he insured! He rarely starts after enjoying when we are only two, while during this night it happened to him several times! And then, none of us three was looking for performance anyway.

We parted in the morning in a strange feeling. We had told Lucie from the beginning that we were looking for a unique adventure rather than a long-term relationship, and she was looking for that as well. So we left each other for good while we had very intense moments.

In the car, on the way back we had little talk with my darling. I remember we said, “Hey, we did it and it was crazy!” We exchanged two small messages with Lucie to thank, after a few days. Then, one or two weeks later, I received a message, addressed only to me, who thanked me again for these magical moments. It was our last exchange.
It still excites us

Subsequently, we talked a lot about these moments with my darling, it excites us still. We were already quite free in our sexuality – we talked about it easily, we allowed ourselves to try new things together – and that did not change much in the long run. We may be even more open …

I became pregnant shortly after this adventure, and this impacted our sexuality in a very different way. We would love to relive this kind of experience but constraints are added with a child. Even find a way of care (and an alibi … because tell papi and grandma that we let baby to go threesome, it’s way!).

And then my body has changed and I do not feel as confident as before, especially because I now have a caesarean section scar over the pubis, which would not go unnoticed in such a situation … But I think that in a few times we will retest the experience!

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